Today I read an article in a magazine about body language. Then it hit me, this is something most people don't think about in their daily lives or in their dating lives. I mean its not like its a mirror there in front of you on a daily basis. Especially in those uncomfortable situations that we find ourselves in when we are dating. I know sometimes I wish there was a mirror so I could see " what was my facial expression when he said that?"
So then I could understand why he responded the way he did.
Well in my opinion what it all boils down to is being aware of yourself. Your actions and reactions. Not only being aware of yourself but being honest with yourself as well. Which a lot of times we as humans we do lie to ourselves or should I say "SUGAR COAT " things. Why I'm still not sure about that yet.
Nevertheless, some things that we can do to assist us with our body language is firstly becoming aware of what body language is. Find out what things you do on a regular basis that you don't really pay attention to. You can do this by asking a good friend that you are around frequently. Another thing you can do is talk. Be honest and say what's on your mind (with tact of course). And get your date or whomever you are out with to be open with you. Saying things on a date or even when you're trying to meet someone without tact can really ruin things. With this we have to be open minded and able to accept ourselves, others and the situation for what it is. Lastly, the best thing to do is remember that communication is a huge part of any relationship and plays a key role. That is both verbal and non verbal communication....
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